Find Your People Fast — Starting with the Pediatrician
In our new series, “Moms Helping Moms,” we’re delivering expert insights from moms in-the-know – leaders, insiders, educators, and fellow parents-on-the-ground sharing their hard-earned suburban wisdom to make your move even more seamless.
First up: three moms (two of whom are Suburban Jungle clients), all of them board-certified pediatricians and co-founders of My Pediatrician Friend.
But First: What Is My Pediatrician Friend?
My Pediatrician Friend is exactly what it sounds like—if your pediatrician BFF also happened to be Ivy League-trained, board-certified, and deeply invested in making parenting a little less overwhelming. Founded by Dr. Brooke Spector, Dr. Hadley Brighton, and Dr. Saskia Gex, all pediatricians and moms, this concierge-style pediatric service brings personalized, on-demand care to families.
Unlike traditional practices, My Pediatrician Friend enables subscribers to text directly with pediatricians (no phone trees or call centers). Whether you’re looking for pre-baby prep, new parent coaching, sick visit triage, or support for more complex care needs, this trio delivers simple, next-level guidance with zero judgment and a healthy dose of real-world parenting empathy.
In short: these are your people. And they know exactly what to look for in a new pediatrician when you make the leap to the ‘burbs.
10 Questions These Pediatrician Moms Want You to Ask
If you’re used to seeing the same pediatrician since your kid’s birth—or if you’ve been cruising along in the city with a big-name practice—it can be hard to imagine starting from scratch. But it doesn’t have to be a guessing game. Here’s what Drs. Spector, Brighton, and Gex suggest keeping in mind:
1. What are the weekend and holiday hours?
Kids don’t get sick on a 9-to-5 schedule. Find out what kind of access you’ll have when things go sideways after hours, especially on weekends and holidays.
2. How does after hours support work?
Is there a doctor on call? Do you speak with a nurse or go through an answering service? In a moment of panic, the difference matters.
3. Can you get a same-day sick visit?
Some practices make room. Others don’t. Some offer telehealth options. Ask how they handle those last-minute “I think it’s an ear infection” calls.
4. How big is the practice, and how personal is the care?
There are pros and cons to both large and small offices. Big = more access and flexibility. Small = more continuity and relationship-building.
5. Is bloodwork done in-house?
Nobody wants to drag a sick kid to a second location. Ask if they handle labs and routine draws in the office.
6. Do they follow the CDC vaccine schedule?
Most practices do, but not all. Make sure their vaccination philosophy aligns with yours.
7. How far is the office from your home?
Fifteen minutes is ideal. Thirty or more? Not fun with a feverish toddler or a kid who gets car sick.
8. Are there extra fees for camp forms, school forms, or quick questions?
It varies widely. Some offices charge for everything, some for nothing. Know before you go.
9. Where’s the nearest pediatric ER or urgent care?
You might not need it often. But when you do, it helps to know exactly where to go.
10. Is there a 24-hour pharmacy nearby?
Yes, the actual pharmacy, not just a 24-hour store. When you need antibiotics fast, this becomes crucial.
You’re Not Locked In, But a Good Fit Makes Life Easier
The biggest takeaway from our pediatrician moms? You can always switch. Choosing a pediatrician isn’t a lifelong commitment, but finding one you trust early on makes the transition to suburban life that much smoother. And don’t overthink it. You don’t need to overanalyze Yelp reviews or interview 14 doctors. Ask around. Check the vibe. Listen to your gut. And if you’re still not sure where to start? Send My Pediatrician Friend a text.
Bottom Line? Add “Find a Pediatrician” to Your Moving List
Because sure, finding your family’s favorite playground and go-to brunch spot is key. But knowing who to call when your kid gets strep on day three in your new house? Way more important.
So go ahead. Find your new go-to doc. Get those forms filled out. And rest a little easier knowing that when someone gets sick (because they will), you’ve already got the support you need.
For more information or to subscribe to My Pediatrician Friend, visit mypediatricianfriend.com. Use code JUNGLE for a free one-month trial.
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